Why Read This Book?

Today's dating landscape presents unique challenges for young gay men, including the complexities of online dating, hookup culture, shifting social roles, and the need for clear communication and consent. I Am Not Your Boy addresses these issues head-on, using key points and events in my own life to impart advice on setting healthy boundaries, coping with toxic behaviors, and navigating the complex rules of love and relationships—all in the context of honoring one’s own personal development.

I Am Not Your Boy presents simply yet powerful advice grounded in positive psychology and attachment theory empowering you to identify and express your needs clearly and without apology, helping you unravel the root problems behind codependency, power struggles, anxiety, depression, and self-destructive attitudes and behaviors.